Godparents

One of the wonderful things that I get to do here at St. Luke’s more often is to celebrate the sacrament of Baptism of children, since we have a few of them running around here. I really enjoy getting to celebrate this wonderful sacrament. It is a blessed and awesome thing to be able to welcome children into the home of the Church and into their second family, the family of faith.

Often times when discussing with couples that are preparing to have their children baptized, I get a question about godparents. This is always a delicate matter for me because the teaching of the Church says that the godparents can be one person or a male and a female, it also states that only active Catholics can be godparents. It does that for a very good reason, the godparents make a promise to help to raise the child in the practice of the faith. If the godparents do not know the Catholic faith or practice it, how can they fulfill the promise to help to raise them in that faith?

I know that most of the time, godparents are chosen because they are siblings or good friends. In the past, the choice of godparents could really affect the life of the children, because they were the ones who would raise the child if something happened to the parents. While that is no longer the case, the godparents should still be a good example of the Christian life for the child. In Hispanic cultures, the role of the godparents (padrinos) is still very important, especially for young girls. They are the ones who will help with the girls Quinceañera (15th birthday celebration) they are the ones that will also help out when the child is going to be married. It is a very special role.

Ideally, the role of a godparent should be who can and will be a good role model for the practice of the faith for the child. I know that we could all have more of those good examples of faith in our lives so that they can help us to live out our own baptismal promises of being that blessed child of God. As an adult, I would encourage each of us to pray for our godparents, and if we are a godparent to make sure that we pray for our godchildren and for ourselves as well to be a wonderful example of faith for them. I have someone that I know that is the godparent of a lot of people now, he keeps in touch with all of them as much as possible and even sends them some little faith notes every-once-in-a-while, just to remind them of the faith. Being a godparent is a wonderful thing, but we do make a promise when we do it to help the parent raise the child in the practice of the faith.

God bless,
Fr. Ken